I know this past Sunday was Father's Day. I always feel strange now to say, "I really miss my dad" because it's such an understatement. I always knew my dad as "my Father." I never knew him as a person. That's why I always love to hear stories about him when we get together as a family and my uncle will start talking about their childhood or the things my dad did at my age. I know I would have really liked my dad and I say that not just because he was my father, but because he was a really likeable guy. He had strength of character and was insanely smart, yet you'd never know it just talking to him; he was very approachable. I think that part of what I grieve is the loss of the connection we could have had as adults, like the type of relationship my mother and I now have that we didn't have while I was a child.
Monday, June 20, 2011
Plants!
I have really gotten into gardening these past few years. I don't know what it is exactly, but I just love flowers. Asiatic lilies are my favorite. Last year, I planted one orange asiatic lily. This year, it produced 13 new stems! I can't even believe that. Check out all those buds! I predict that they'll bloom within two weeks or so.
As for the rest of the plants, I have mostly perennials. I think there are three or four annuals in there. I like perennials better because you really get your money's worth with them; why bother planting new plants every year? Some pots, though, I do like to change up every year, like the tea kettle pot. In the pots on the patio, I have salvia, yarrow (both yellow and salmon), daisies, lavender, Mexican heather, pansies, echinacea (purple coneflower), oriental poppies, bleeding hearts, trumpet vine, and a few others.
I used to plant herbs and vegetables in containers, but they didn't really do so well, save for the chives, which I still have out there now. Vegetables don't really do well in container gardens for the most part (I'm not saying that across the board, they don't work...sometimes, they do okay). So, I'm waiting until I have a little more space and can grow proper herb and vegetable gardens.
I know this past Sunday was Father's Day. I always feel strange now to say, "I really miss my dad" because it's such an understatement. I always knew my dad as "my Father." I never knew him as a person. That's why I always love to hear stories about him when we get together as a family and my uncle will start talking about their childhood or the things my dad did at my age. I know I would have really liked my dad and I say that not just because he was my father, but because he was a really likeable guy. He had strength of character and was insanely smart, yet you'd never know it just talking to him; he was very approachable. I think that part of what I grieve is the loss of the connection we could have had as adults, like the type of relationship my mother and I now have that we didn't have while I was a child.
I know this past Sunday was Father's Day. I always feel strange now to say, "I really miss my dad" because it's such an understatement. I always knew my dad as "my Father." I never knew him as a person. That's why I always love to hear stories about him when we get together as a family and my uncle will start talking about their childhood or the things my dad did at my age. I know I would have really liked my dad and I say that not just because he was my father, but because he was a really likeable guy. He had strength of character and was insanely smart, yet you'd never know it just talking to him; he was very approachable. I think that part of what I grieve is the loss of the connection we could have had as adults, like the type of relationship my mother and I now have that we didn't have while I was a child.
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